Update -I want to let people no that I have resigned my positions from the church because I found out (as is shown below) that the Pastor and other trustees did not tell me nor the congregation:
The Church has a Constitution that was never shared with me nor the church
The Church has a values statement that is in conflict with what they tell people on the website
The Church has no governing body
And all of that is in direct conflict with what they told the officers of the church and the congregation for the entire 8 years that I attended.
I want to be clear that I am no longer energized to try and help the church. Terry Sharpe, the Pastor, told members of the church many things that are not true about me, and never once agreed to sit down and discuss the issues I have presented. I am convinced that the church does not exist for the people of Western Hanover County and instead is there to satisfy Terry Sharpe’s needs, even though he is just a paid employee of the church, since he is unwilling to even discuss and be open to suggestions. I never would have suspected that someone can be a friend one minute but as soon as you disagree with them become a vehement enemy, simply because I have suggestions to make. This experience really opened my eyes to something I have never encountered in my life. Too bad.
So I cannot and will not endorse this church because of the misrepresentations that are made by the pastor and the trustees.
I offered on multiple occasions to do what the bible says and have another person come with me to talk to Terry Sharpe, but he refused to even talk. This is counter to the Bible and the gospel of Matthew. Then, Terry Sharpe went behind my back and told lies about me to the congregants to get them to exclude me from the church, thereby never confronting me with the opportunity to refute anything he had to say. He also shared private correspondence with others without my permission. This is unacceptable behavior in any area of society, let alone a church. They documented the accusations in a letter they gave to me and I would be happy to share they felt it appropriate to spread these lies without even discussing it with me, not even once!
If anyone feels that I am to blame, then my offer still stands to meet with Terry Sharpe and discuss with anyone who wants. I am totally open about this. But, I have made this offer before and Terry Sharpe has always refused to have an open conversation with others present.
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I must say that I am quite energized by again becoming an active part of the community at Western Hanover Church. For those who are new to the church or do not know the history, I was a Trustee, I counted the money each week, I hosted the church web site, I would frequently speak during the service, and I was an instrumental part of the finance committee (and more). I have been a member of the church for several years, nearly from the beginning, and I am wholly vested in making our Church into what we want it to be.
Last year I realized that the church does not have a strategic direction. There was no document and nothing available other than what was said during service. So I drafted a first cut at a strategic direction for the church and gave it to a few of the people so that we can start down the path of developing a solid foundation for the church we all want to have.
However, the document apparently caused a stir among some in the church and Pastor Sharpe gave me a document that I had not received before. It is entitled:
CONSTITUTION AND COVENANT
OF
WESTERN HANOVER CHURCH
March 17, 2002
Needless to say I was quite stunned that I had been a member of the church for 6 or more years, had my children baptized in the church and devoted such a tremendous amount of time (as you can see by my positions), and money into the church yet I was never told that there actually was such a document. After realizing that I was ill informed and could not represent the church I resigned as a Trustee.
The document contains the following:
- Purpose of the Church
- Membership Definition
- Various Levels of Membership and Voting Rights (there are 4 levels of membership)
- Cessation of Membership
- Vision Statement
- Mission Statement
- Core Values – Different from those on the church website
- Church Relationships
- Statement of Definition
If anyone wants to get a copy of this just let me know but I really don’t see a need for that at the present time. I believe that since it is obvious that the church is not following these covenants and bylaws since they would have certainly published them and given them to members and me as a Trustee. Instead, I would like to consider those to now be obsolete, though I think the church is legally bound to uphold them. Perhaps Pastor Sharpe or one of the Trustees will write a comment and let us know what the status is with this.
So Where Do We Go from Here
I have taken 6 months off since that time to think and pray about what happened. I also visited several other Pastors to discuss this as well as talk to the Baptist body to which Western Hanover Church is a subordinate organization. In all of those encounters I was encouraged to try and continue my efforts to bring the church to represent what we all intended it to be.
So, I am going to continue to work out a strategy and commentary for the church and hope that I can get others who have a passion about the church to participate in this effort. I love the church and what we are doing and it is about time that we got the administration of the church up to the level that the congregation thinks the church deserves. It is terrible that we place so much burden on Terry Sharpe to administer the business of the church. He is just one employee.
The Community Needs to Take Ownership!
I realize that many in the congregation will not have a part in this effort. But there are quite a few members who have experience in organization management and I ask that you step forward and help in driving the direction for the church. WE CAN DO THIS! There is not reason to believe that Pastor Sharpe should have the responsibility to do this since it is the responsibility of the community to own the church vision and strategy.
God bless the community and I can’t wait to talk about this with you all.
Dave